"...we just were"

We all start somewhere. See below our extended family home on East 127th Street Harlem. House on left. This in 1945 more or less. My maternal grandpa bought it for his children who shared ongoing expenses. These being my Aunt Sybil aunt Agnes, and my Ma Carmen. My Aunt Agnes, and my Ma lived there till they bought their own homes later in the early 50’s. Aunt Sybil, and her family stayed till the early 1960′s.

Back then even as new immigrants do now. One house is brought, and the extended family moves in. Mom, and dad lived on the second floor. I’m told I was nearly born there. No plaque as yet. My Uncle Clyde…designated maternity driver. His car nearly didn’t start, but he got us there.

We stayed close as we all grew up. The families always visited,.…near every week. Tho' we lived in far parts of town. One moment I’m digging holes in the back yard when Dad yanks me into the old Buick. Then I’m digging holes in my aunts yard. Only now with my cousins.

We were always taking in relatives as they came through NYC from the Islands. I remember folks just showing up, and staying for a while. This in all of the family houses. Like grandma taught. Always cook for one or two more. Ma did, and often. ...a good thing too. Cousins friends of family connections of affection. As kids we thought this was normal. Folks just came, and were treated as family.

As I mention sometimes. History is hard to see when it rings the door bell. When it’s that close. We were witnessing were part of the Second Great Migration North. The first from the Deep South this from the Islands.

As happens to kids our folks never explained details to us. We were on our own to figure connections, and meanings. I just remember a happy blur amongst sisters brother cousins friends. That we all belonged together was unquestioned. We were family. We just were.